Family court is not neutral ground. Coercive controllers often thrive inside systems that reward conflict, prolong harm, and mistake aggression for credibility. Many protective parents enter seeking justice — and instead find themselves retraumatized. This is not about giving up. It’s about survival. Sometimes the safest move isn’t to “win,” but to get out — to negotiate strategically, reduce exposure, and limit the abuser’s ability to keep punishing you through the system. That may mean letting
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Dr. Cocchiola, DSW, LCSW. Hollow Coves · The Woods (Acoustic). Family court is not neutral ground. Coercive controllers often thrive inside systems that reward conflict, prolong harm, and mistake aggression for credibility. Many protective parents enter seeking justice — and instead find themselves retraumatized. This is not about giving up ...
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