When someone you love struggles with compulsive sexual behavior, it can feel personal. Many partners immediately ask themselves what they did wrong or why they were not “enough.” But the truth is very different. This behavior is not caused by a lack of love, desire or attraction. It is not a relationship problem. It is a mental health issue rooted in unresolved trauma, attachment wounds, anxiety, loneliness and the need to self-soothe overwhelming internal pain. You did not cause it. And your wo