Her struggle: I’ve always been with addicted people I asked: Why do you think you attract addicted people? She said: Because I feel sorry for them, I feel that compassion I asked: Is it really compassion if you are enabling? Because a lot of times what people do that are givers is they give, they give, they give, and they think I’m being good and I’m helping people Is it really helping? That’s the question to become aware of… And if we feel like it, is it really helping? I feel guilty And also s