I’m a queer cis woman in my late 30s with a problem: I don’t like having my pussy eaten. This isn’t about me being uncomfortable with the way my pussy looks or smells or tastes. I just don’t like the ...

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I’m gay and go to a small liberal arts school. I have a crush on this one guy, but he brought up — unprompted — that he’s Aro ...

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I’m a 37-year-old man with a 35-year-old partner. We are both cisgender gay men. Whatever physical/sexual intimacy we shared in the beginning of our nearly three-year relationship is long gone. He now ...

I am a 30-year-old cishet woman. I have been dating this guy for about six months. and he is perfect. We have great sex. The caveat is that I have never had an orgasm during sex with him. I have ...

Columnist and activist says he doesn't believe in "the one." March 24, 2011— -- When sex columnist and activist Dan Savage started his advice column, "Savage Love," he had no idea that his open, ...

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My boyfriend and I are currently doing the long-distance thing. About two months ago during some dirty phone talk he said he’d been masturbating while thinking about me fucking another man while he ...

I have some concerns about my cuckold fetish that you did not address in a recent column on the subject. Aspects of my particular fantasy are prevalent among people with this type of fetish, and they ...

1. How does one tell the difference between when someone says they love you in a Platonic way and when someone says they love you in a romantic way? One asks a direct question: “That’s nice — but do ...